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This is a toughie but you may find the person your heart desires and they don’t seem to have realised it.

Maybe you met on an online dating site and you are mad for him or her but they don’t seem as keen. You are hanging on by your fingertips in the hope that they will soon realise that you were made for each other. Maybe you have been seeing each other for a while and they are obviously fond of you but you know deep down that they don’t really love you.

One day, sooner or later they will tell you that things are not working out and you may be reduced to promising to change in order to become the person they really want. It’s all a bit humiliating but it’s all you have left and you think it’s worth it to win their love.

Trouble is that it won’t work. You can jump through hoops, beat yourself up and destroy your own self esteem but they still won’t love you.

Letting them go will be tough but at least it’s a chance to start again and you will have kept hold of your dignity in the process. It’s not you to blame my friend. Its just that that’s how love is and you cant hurry or force love.

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