Been there and got the ‘t’ shirt. Everything is fine apart from the fact that your kids are compared to their kids and your kids are suddenly troublesome and not very welcome. Suddenly, Sunday lunch is by negotiation and Xmas day is a nightmare to get over than a day to enjoy. Not sure what [...]
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Don’t go to bed angry|Over 30 Dating
January 31st, 2010
My Mum never would let me go to bed on the back of a telling off. She believed that very little was worth carrying on as soon as her point was made and understood.
Going to bed angry and/or upset was the precursor to waking up stressed and ready to confront another day with a negative [...]
Show Them You Love Them
January 31st, 2010
How do you show your other half that you love them? Is it flowers and chocolates or perhaps a special meal out at MacDonalds (joking). Now I am not belittling anything that you do because there are many of us out there who don’t receive any appreciation at all. What I would consider are the [...]
Not being perfect is fantastic news
January 30th, 2010
Not being perfect is fantastic news
If you are not in a relationship right now which is a fair bet as you are on a dating site, it is tempting to blame your looks. Perhaps, it’s your weight, hair, complexion, figure or teeth.
Welcome to the real world where nobody is perfect but lots of us would [...]
Nice Guys Do Online Dating As Well
January 30th, 2010
I’m talking about online dating, of course. When the phenomenon of online dating sites started several years ago, they were a haven for perverts, sexual predators, nerds, and weirdoes of assorted varieties.
That is just no longer the case. All the stigma of online dating is gone. Online dating has gone main stream and is, not [...]
Mr. Perfect Does Not Exist!
January 30th, 2010
The sooner you realize this sad but true fact, the sooner you can get on with finding Mr. Close-Enough-To-Perfect. Prince Charming, riding on a white stallion, lost his way or found Princess Charming and got married on his way to your castle. Get over it and get on with it. You ARE going to have [...]
Make Sure You Are Over Your Last Relationship
January 30th, 2010
If you are an emotional wreck after your last relationship, it might be an idea to lick your wounds and get over it before dating again. If you don’t you might not be able to show the real you and focus on your new date without being preoccupied with yourself.
The additional problem is that you [...]
Online Dating: Honesty Really is the Best Policy
January 30th, 2010
When you join an online dating service, you are looking for a girl that you can like…even come to love. That girl is looking for a guy that SHE can like or even love. What you aren’t looking for is a girl who would like your best friend or your idea of what the perfect [...]
Do they make you laugh?
January 30th, 2010
For me personally, this is the most important thing in all relationships including my own. Looks will fade, fortunes fade and health suffer but a sense of humour remains constant.
A sense of humour is a very personal thing and someone who laughs at your jokes and who makes you laugh also is the one to [...]
You will know them straight away.
January 30th, 2010
OK this doesn’t work for everybody but for some, love at first sight on a date is a reality. The secret when you do fall in love straight away is don’t take a gamble on being right and reveal your feelings immediately. If you take a bit of time and you are right then what [...]